The Raleigh, North Carolina community is mourning the heartbreaking loss of Xander Barnes (Alexander), a beloved son, friend, and passionate theatre volunteer who passed away unexpectedly. Known for his warm spirit, infectious humor, and unwavering dedication, Xander left an indelible mark on both the North Raleigh Arts and Creative Theatre (NRACT) and his workplace at Liberty Tree Tavern.
His sudden passing has sent waves of grief across the local arts scene and the broader community that he so enthusiastically served.
A Pillar of the North Raleigh Arts Community
From a young age, Xander was a vibrant part of North Raleigh Arts and Creative Theatre (NRACT). Those who knew him say the theatre was like a second home to him—a place where he thrived, made lifelong friendships, and poured his energy into countless productions, events, and community projects.
In a moving statement released by the theatre, the NRACT family shared:
“Our NRACT family is grieving the loss of one of our own. Xander Barnes grew up at North Raleigh Arts & Creative Theatre. He was devoted, hardworking, kind, and made us all laugh with his wit.”
Xander’s contributions went far beyond performance. He was a behind-the-scenes force who tirelessly volunteered his time and skills. Whether it was helping set up sets, organizing costumes, or simply ensuring every corner of the theatre sparkled, his presence was always felt.
First-Ever Elizabeth Grimes-Droessler Volunteer Award Recipient
In recognition of his extraordinary volunteerism and community spirit, Xander was honored as the first recipient of the Elizabeth Grimes-Droessler Volunteer Award, an accolade created to celebrate those who go above and beyond for the theatre.
“No one deserved it more,” said the NRACT team. “Xander dedicated numerous hours to volunteering at the theatre. He was committed to making the theatre the best it could be.”
His love for the NRACT community was genuine and unwavering. In fact, Xander’s enthusiasm for cleaning and organizing the space was so legendary that the term “Xanderized” was born—used affectionately to describe a space that had been meticulously cleaned and brought to order, just the way Xander liked it.
Dedicated to Service and Hospitality at Liberty Tree Tavern
Beyond the world of theatre, Xander also brought his passion for service and people to his role at Liberty Tree Tavern, where he worked as a valued team member. His coworkers and guests alike recall his positive attitude, attention to detail, and genuine care for everyone he encountered.
Before joining Liberty Tree Tavern, Xander was part of the esteemed Disney College Program, an opportunity that reflects his passion for creating joyful, meaningful experiences for others. His time with Disney helped shape his work ethic and love for hospitality, both of which he carried into every job and volunteer role.
Education and Background
Xander Barnes was a graduate of Jesse O. Sanderson High School in Raleigh, North Carolina. Over the years, he built a wide network of friends and peers who admired his character, creativity, and uplifting personality. His Facebook profile reflects a full life enriched by close relationships, community involvement, and joyful memories with loved ones.
A Deep and Lasting Impact
The outpouring of grief from friends, family members, colleagues, and fellow theatre lovers paints a picture of a young man whose kindness and selflessness were truly unmatched. The NRACT’s tribute summed up the profound sense of loss felt by the community:
“His love for his NRACT family will always be remembered, and his dedication can never be matched. Rest easy. We will love you always.”
Xander’s passing serves as a powerful reminder of how one person’s dedication and love can leave an everlasting impact. His memory will live on in every “Xanderized” space, in every performance at NRACT, and in every heart he touched with his laughter and generosity.
Remembering Xander Barnes: A Legacy of Love, Laughter, and Service
Though his time was tragically cut short, Xander Barnes leaves behind a legacy of purpose and passion. He was more than just a volunteer or employee—he was a shining light in every room he entered. From the stage to the dining floor, from backstage laughs to community events, Xander’s influence will continue to be felt by all who had the privilege to know him.
As his NRACT family so lovingly put it, “We will love you always.”
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